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No Strings Dating USA: Local Hookups, No Promises Needed

Browse adults in your area who want it casual too, chat first and meet when it suits you both.

Casual, close by and kept private

  • Tags that say it

    Local Only and Available This Weekend tell people you want someone nearby and soon, before you type a word.

  • Your city, not your street

    Other members see your nearest town or city and never an address or live location. The safety page lists every tool.

  • Search by city

    VIP members can filter by city and distance, and by what someone is open to. The features page shows each level.

  • Prices in dollars

    The pricing page shows every plan in US dollars and marks the ones that renew.

Checking other apps first? The comparisons put us beside them in turn.

Which cities and states have members?

Members include people in and around Atlanta, Charlotte, Chicago, Dallas, Fremont, Houston, Indianapolis, Los Angeles, Miami, New York, Oklahoma City, Philadelphia, San Diego, San Jose and Tampa.

States with members include California, Florida, Georgia, Illinois, Maryland, Michigan, New Jersey, New York, North Carolina, Ohio, Pennsylvania, Texas, Virginia and Washington, in alphabetical order. Based in Britain instead? No strings dating UK has its own page.

Here is the age picture for members in the USA.

18 to 241%
25 to 3421%
35 to 4436%
45 to 5421%
55 and over21%

Members in the USA, by age group, as shares.

18, or 21 in some states. The terms set the minimum age at 18, and at 21 in the US states they name, which include Alabama, Mississippi, Nebraska and Wyoming. Not sure about yours? Read the terms before you join.

Keep your money and your plans yours

Do

  • Stay on the dating site until you are sure who you are talking to, says the Illinois Attorney General.
  • Reverse image search their profile photo, as the FTC recommends.
  • Pick a safe, public place for a first date, the North Carolina Department of Justice advises.

Skip

  • Sending money by wire, gift card number, payment app or crypto to someone you haven't met: the FTC names all four.
  • Anyone who can't meet or keeps cancelling, then asks for money, the FTC warns.
  • Cashing money orders or forwarding money or parcels for a match, North Carolina warns.

If you suspect a scam, the FTC says to cut contact, talk to someone you trust and report it at ReportFraud.ftc.gov, telling the site or app where you met. The Illinois Attorney General's list is to save the messages, block the person, then tell the platform, your local police, the FBI's Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3) and the FTC.

How often should you get tested?

The CDC says everyone aged 13 to 64 should have an HIV test at least once. It adds that anyone with more than one partner since their last test should test at least yearly, and it lists other reasons too. Its GetTested tool finds fast, confidential testing at low or no cost, including self-collection kits.

Before sex with someone new, the CDC suggests talking about sexual and drug-use history and HIV status, and considering testing together. Used the right way every time, it says, condoms are highly effective against HIV, but none gives absolute protection.

On consent, the US Office on Women's Health says someone who is drunk, drugged or high cannot give it. Our guide to safer sex and STI testing for casual partners has more.

Questions from US readers

Is there a no strings attached dating site for US adults?

Yes, if you are 18 or over, or 21 in the US states the terms name. Members are after casual sex and hookups with no commitment, and they include people in and around Atlanta, Chicago, Dallas, Los Angeles and New York.

Can I cancel straight after subscribing?

In the US states the terms name, among them California, Illinois, New York and Ohio, you may cancel without penalty or obligation up to midnight on the third business day after you subscribe. Elsewhere purchases are generally final unless the law says otherwise. Read the refund section of the terms to check your state.

Who takes reports of dating scams in the US?

Report it at ReportFraud.ftc.gov, the FTC says, and let the site or app where you met know too. The Illinois Attorney General also lists your local police and the FBI's Internet Crime Complaint Center, and advises saving the messages and blocking the person.

Where can I get tested after a casual hookup?

The CDC's GetTested tool finds fast, confidential testing at low or no cost, including self-collection kits. The CDC also says everyone aged 13 to 64 should be tested for HIV at least once, and at least yearly if they have had more than one partner since their last test.

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